When the Leaves Let Go and Emerging From the Dark


Notes from the Bower

November 2025 • Fourth Edition
When the Leaves Let Go and Emerging From the Dark

Dear Reader,

Here we are in the month of Thanksgiving! It's such a beautiful time to pause and reflect on what we're grateful for. A few things on my list are our tulip poplar tree, Thomas Merton's When the Trees Say Nothing, evening walks with my Mom, rewatching Stranger Things with my husband, and YOU!

I hope your own list is full of both big and small blessings.

In this Notes edition, you'll find:

  • 🍁 What some maple leaves showed me about trust—and the freedom that comes from surrender.
  • 🖼️ How taking away what isn't needed reveals a beauty that's been there all along.

Welcome to November at the bower!

PS: Don't hesitate to hit "reply" if you have something to share—I always love hearing from you! And as always, don't forget to step outside for some nature gazing—welcome in that beauty!

A Short Message for You

As we step into this season of gratitude, I wanted to share a warm wish with you. I recorded a short video just for you—it's less than a minute—and I’d love for you to watch it.

Notes from Nature: When the Leaves Let Go

I’ve always found fall to be especially rich with much to marvel at and reflect upon.
But this year in particular, my thoughts have tended to be a bit more melancholic.

I’ve had many reminders that time passes—whether I’m paying attention or not.
Situations change. People get older. Things come to an end.
Sadness and loss enter our lives, and they are a very real part of our shared human experience.

Letting go, saying goodbye, moving on—can be really hard.
Seasons pass.

One morning, while I was wrapped up in my thoughts, Ophie and I went out for our walk. The wind was setting loose dozens of leaves from the sugar maple in its fading red glory.

They seemed to gleefully twirl and dance as they spun dizzily to rest on the ground.
It completely caught me off guard, and I found myself grinning in delight.

For a moment, I was reminded of children spinning round and round before falling to the ground in laughter.

It struck me that I could learn something from those leaves about my approach to letting go—especially in the many situations in life that I have no control over.

There can be real freedom in surrender. When I let go and allow myself to be rooted in trust that God is like the wind—lovingly carrying me, surrounding me on my journey—it’s a beautiful thing.

I might not know where I’m going to land or what the journey will look like, but God does. No matter my age, I am always a child in His eyes. As a loving parent, He wants me to trust Him to carry me safely to wherever I need to go.

So when my day doesn’t go as I think it should…
why not joyfully surrender and go along for the ride?

And when my heart hurts from loss,
why not be consoled knowing God is always carrying me?

I just might find myself giddy from the most amazing ride of my life…
and that is something I can be grateful for.

Want to see some ready-to-fall leaves from a gorgeous golden walk in the park? You can see them here.

In every walk with Nature one receives far more than he seeks.
John Muir

Notes from the Studio: Emerging from the Dark

I don’t know about you, but shortened hours of daylight and the lengthening of night is a little challenging for me at this time of year. I know that eventually the light will begin to return and the nights will once again grow shorter—but it’s a season to move through.

A handful of years ago, I learned about the subtractive method of oil painting and charcoal drawing, and I immediately fell in love with the process.

Rather than starting with a blank canvas or piece of paper and adding to it, the subtractive process—as you might guess—works in reverse.

The surface is covered with a dark, solid ground of charcoal or paint, and then you begin to draw by erasing—by gently taking away.

Out of the darkness, light begins to emerge, and with just a few swipes of an eraser or rag, an image starts to take form. Everything is there from the beginning, but layer by layer you remove more and more until the form is fully revealed.

And my gosh, isn’t that how we are with God, the Master Artist?

We are each a beautiful work of art that gets covered by the difficulties of this life—hurt, misunderstanding, confusion, worry, overwhelm, uncertainty.

But when we allow God to work on us, He gently clears away the darkness and brings our true beauty into the light.

It’s all a process, but if we trust, we will eventually be fully restored to the masterpiece God intended us to be from the start.

That’s something to look forward to with joyful anticipation, don’t you think? 🌿

Something new is on the horizon!

The Joyful Bower website will soon open — a beautiful place for art, reflection, and nature’s gentle invitations to slow down and see beauty anew.

I can’t wait to welcome you in and share it with you!

Friends of the Bower

I'm grateful for you all! New Friends, welcome! Returning Friends, welcome back!

Over a hundred more names have been added this month to my special jar, as new readers join our community. That jar serves a visual reminder of everyone for whom I am creating, and praying—that your days will be filled with lasting peace, joy, and beauty.

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